When a Cancer Loses Interest
This is a pretty good bet: If someone you know is very psychic, chances are this individual is a Cancer. Cancers are very intuitive, and they love to “read” people, which means they like to point out the little personality traits that other people think they’re hiding, and Cancers can find and point them out.
In order to avoid making a Cancer feel doubted and move on to someone who won’t, you can’t really point out that they aren’t psychic, even if they are wrong.
Cancers are extremely devoted to their partners. They are passionate about love and expressing it, so if you are not prepared for a loving relationship and would prefer not to say those four words to a Cancer, you will find that they quickly lose interest in you.
Whatever kind of relationship you have with Cancer, the most essential thing for him is to know that you’re putting in as much hard work as he is. Making him feel unwanted or as if he’s the only one who cares is what irritates him the most.
Sometimes, Cancer is a little needy. This is because he wants to make sure that his relationships are worth keeping. If he believes you are emotionally neglecting him, he will lose interest quickly. How then can you tell he’s feeling this way? He’ll begin to withdraw emotionally and mentally from you.
To keep your Cancer guy from abandoning you, you must first understand what drives him. Cancer Man Secrets by Relationship Astrologer Anna Kovach contains extremely useful advice.
When a Cancer Loses Interest – Why And How To Win Him Back?
Do Not Expect Him to Chase You
If you expect him to chase you, you’ll be disheartened. Because Cancer males are quiet and reserved & hate the idea of being rejected, putting on your best feminine ambiance and turning on the charm is a good idea.
- Develop friendship with him.
- Be ready and able to take the first steps toward something more than a friendship.
- Ignore subtle hints; instead, be straightforward and notify him of what you want without being pushy.
Be Assertive Without Being Pushy
The ideal woman for a Cancer man is a mixture of refined beauty, elegance, and intellectual ability. He is drawn to females who are both elegant, courteous, wholesome, and compassionate, as well as self-confident in a feminine manner.
Inviting Him to Dinner
As the saying goes, “the stomach and the family are the way to a man’s heart”. Invite him to dinner at your home; if you can cook, always the better.
Remember that Cancer males are a little hesitant about entering a relationship, so don’t rush into things. If a Cancer guy decides to spend more time with you, you can be confident that he is interested and eager to learn more about you.
Lunch with family and friends
Be respectful to his friends and family.
To him, family and friends are important. Make absolutely sure you don’t forget about or insult either one of them, either. One of the most effective ways to be accepted into his life is to get to know his friends and family and have them accept you as well.
Tell him about your family!
If you’re in a relationship with a Cancer man, be sure to tell him about your family. He might be interested in hearing about your childhood & happy family stories. Also, tell him if you aspire to own a home and a family of your own.
Discuss Your Career
A Cancer man needs to feel safe. He is drawn to women who can take care of themselves financially and have career goals for the future.
Don’t try to pry into his personal life.
Cancers are secretive and thus will withdraw if they sense you are interrogating them, so avoid asking too many invasive questions and refrain from telling him anything that another person said in confidence to you. Learn about him by having a conversation with him. He’ll open up to you if you show real interest in what he has to say.
A Cancer man enjoys being touched. When you meet a Cancer man, give him a friendly hug or kiss on the cheek and gently touch his shoulder or hand while you’re talking.
Feelings for Him
He requires considerable attention and understanding. As such, whenever he opens up to you, set your opinion aside and listen to him. Don’t use cliches, don’t pass judgment, and don’t feel obligated to make everything better. Be empathetic and emotionally connect with him.
Be Prepared to Pay Your Way
To a man born under this sign, money equals security, and he is notoriously frugal with his money. He doesn’t see anything wrong with women paying their own way. Ask if you can split the bill or cover the cost of your ticket. He may decline, but because you offered, he will find you more attractive. Along the same lines, if he thinks you’re wasteful with your money, he’ll begin to doubt his future with you.
Demonstrate Some Vulnerability
Cancers prefer to play the traditional masculine role, so ask him to assist you in some small way or to offer you advice or guidance. The fact that you’re allowing yourself to be vulnerable in this way shows not only your respect but also that you trust him enough to do so.
- Want to save the relationship with a Cancer man? It’s not impossible, but you’ll need some help. Try Cancer Man Secrets for real-life advice and examples that will help you find “forever” with your Cancer man.
When a Cancer Loses Interest – Why And How To Win Him Back? by Sam Derrick